Today was the worst day of my life.
I'm sure I've had more painful days, more stressful days, more disastrous days. But today I will never forget. A part of me died.
We were in court 9am-4pm, with one and a half hour lunch.
The judge decided...
Spousal transitional support...
Child support...
The kids and I get to stay in our home and I have 2 years to refinance.
Parental visitation will remain the same, with a few exceptions. He has to bring the kids to our church Sunday morning then they can spend the afternoon with him. ("kids" refers to Brianna and Isaac. Time with Dom will depend on his willingness to reconcile the relationship with his son.)
He will get four nonconsecutive weeks during the summer. At July's temporary hearing this was discussed and we agreed to two weeks. In November he sent a request which included three weeks. I responded two weeks is reasonable with the kids' schedule-camps and activities but in court he asked for four…
Our assets are split 50/50.
I am custodial parent.
My brain is powering down now.
1 comment:
the part of you that died will be resurrected…you will be stronger…God has used this terrible situation that satan brought about to make you stronger in Him. He will turn your mourning into dancing. Psalm 30:11. Jeremiah 31:13. Isaiah 61:2,3. He comforts those who mourn. Romans 8:28 "we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." God shows his strength when we are weak. 2 Corinthians 12:9-10.
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